The other day, at a Fashion Week party, my friend Alan and I stood against a wall, scanning the room for hot people, as you do.
“It’s weird,” he said contemplatively, staring into a sea of models.
Yeah I am pretty, but I am just a woman underneath this. I just want a normal guy, who burps, and leaves his socks all over the house, but cares enough about me to take care of the guy things. I get a lot of attention, but it is not quality attention.
They always presume I want the super rich guy, or the super good-looking guy.
And if they are intimidated, is that good intimidation (as I suspect), or is it more of a turn-off thing?
I asked many of my friends who often get the “he is just intimidated by you” line why they think they fit the mold of a hard-to-approach gal.
You want to have friends outside of your work circle.
Have you ever been faced with that impossible question from a friend?
She looks you in the eye and asks for the truth—for one moment of brutal honesty: “Why doesn’t he like me? I don’t know about you, but when I tell my friends they are intimidating, what I mean is that they are just too awesome for the guy.
They told me on their own accord, because they wondered why I never had a GF.
I've had older people, random people, all sorts of people talk about me, ask about me, compliment me, all that.