Whether the divorce was your idea or your spouse’s, most people find themselves experiencing negative emotions when their ex-spouse starts dating again. Here are 6 tips that will help you process those negative emotions: 1. You spent a large part of your life with this person, and during the years you were together, dating and married, you came to think of that person as YOUR significant other.
When couples are not communicating effectively, when they are not getting most of their basic needs met in the marriage, I try to teach them one or more of the following four communication skills, which I believe are essential to success in marriage.
So those who are even still friends with my hubby on social media should know that he didn’t either tell me about them or straight flat I don’t know about it. I mean everything and that’s how open we let the marriage be from inception so I tell him what I don’t like and sometimes he even says – okay I remain friends with A or delete B’s comments. I don’t have time for men moving forward and looking backward.
I am too busy for that kind of life and I am too real to pretend. These things shouldn’t be hard – trust me am super loving and sexy and I can play the social media flirting with an ex too, which my husband knows. Marriage is hard and too real to bring arguments that bring heartaches.
Being deficient in even one of these skills can significantly limit what you and your spouse can achieve in your relationship.
Being deficient in more than one of these skills can put any marriage at risk. EXPRESSING NEGATIVE FEELINGS CONSTRUCTIVELY "Negative feelings" refers to those feelings which we generally do not enjoy hearing from others.